I’ve always believed there is a difference between people who were born Muslims and others who chose to be ones. Which one are you?
To me the latter are often stronger Muslims than the former.
Most of us who were born Muslims get our teachings from our parents, school, etc. Or that’s what it’s supposed to be. Most of our knowledge is what is given to us. Mimicking actions. We don’t actually go & search, further educate ourselves. Prepare for potential questions and inquires from non-Muslims who seek to become one or others who want to demolish and question the essence of our beliefs.
It saddens me, the way we practice our Islam here. I am not a religious person. I’ve a really long way to go. But there are basics one should not detour from and ignore. We don’t realize that our actions reflect directly on our religion, even if it’s not related what so ever.
Simply, praying (عماد الدين). Once we were in Starbucks and it was prayer time, so we prayed in one of their rooms
( وَلِلّهِ الْمَشْرِقُ وَالْمَغْرِبُ فَأَيْنَمَا تُوَلُّواْ فَثَمَّ وَجْهُ اللّهِ إِنَّ اللّهَ وَاسِعٌ عَلِيمٌ ).
The sad thing is that all the rest of the coffee shop which was packed to its fullest, men & women, didn’t move. As if the man calling for the prayer (اذان) was just another unheard familiar ritual.
قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه و سلم: انما بعثت لاتمم مكارم الأخلاق
ان الظلم ظلمات يوم القيامة
How does this translate into our life routine? Think about it. They way we treat each other and other people. The way we behave like we were these untouchable superior beings.
I was taking a course and this Filipino woman was talking to me. She was surprised why we don’t have nude beaches, as her husband was about to take her swimming top off another Filipino told her it is not allowed here. Why isn’t allowed here was her question. Why don’t you eat pig meat or drink wine. She was saying that she attended a private party here in Kuwait and Kuwaiti-Muslim men were drinking & partying. So simply I said, in your religion, you must have rules and regulations you do not abide to or practice right, don’t you have to go to church or fast for a day for example. What you see doesn’t necessarily mean that this is our religion, our religion forbids all that. If you want to know more about Islam go and read about it from our books, how it is supposed to be not how it is right now.
My IELTS teacher once asked me. Do you think Islam is practised here? The way the girls are in malls. You know even in England girls don’t walk around like that. I am surprised that you don’t appreciate that Quran is written in Arabic which is your native language, I have to struggle to understand its meaning. Do you know that I teach basic Islamic teachings to Muslims. Finally he told me, he’s thinking of going back to England and becoming a (داعية)
Just some quotes to ponder:
“Al-Hamedellah Allah showed me Islam before HE showed me Muslims”
ذهبت للغرب فوجدت الاسلام و لم أجد المسلمين
ذهبت للشرق فوجدت المسلمين و لم أجد الاسلام
My attempt here is a daily struggle between myself & I. Maybe it is Ramadan but deep down I know it is not. Which kind of makes me happy. I do retain my basic Islamic practices and teachings all year long, but in this holy month I go the extra mile in hopes to redeem myself into becoming a better Muslim and keep it for a life time. Insha’Allah I succeed.
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#1 by fa6fooo6 on September 15, 2007 - 12:48 PM
You are thinking like me..
you know that day I was reading Qura’an.. When I came to some aayat that were 7ife’6 in school.. good I remeber them soo well I didn’t even need to read them..
So after I finished I was thinking.. why didn’t they make us memorize Qura’an in sequence.. 7 giving us tafseer on each thing we need to memorize.. by then we would have memorized one joz’ or two & had a good base to complete from! not like now bit’s from all the place!!
Stupid ppl in Ministry of education!
#2 by Oryx on September 15, 2007 - 2:48 PM
It’s so terrible that Muslims are not able to appreciate the great fortune that they’ve been given for being born a Muslim and in a Muslim country where they can practice it freely, religion really what regulates your life and creates a meaning and adds sense to it, and some how people attitude towards Islam here is either, taking it for granted, as if it’s just about worshipping or defying it as if they are not Muslims, all what I got from school was, answer this question:
Why god created us?
- to worship God
- ta3mier el universe
Islam gives you teaching that convert you to a human, it’s a true treasure and inner peace that nothing can substituted for
Shame that they walk around calling themselves Muslims without knowing the essence of it, I still believe that the true practice of Islam is in mo3amalah and a’7lag, if all could do that the understanding of this religion would flow in and would settle
#3 by Haider on April 1, 2009 - 12:16 AM
I used to think that Muslims are just not appreciating the religion that they were born into, but I soon realized that they’re not the ones to blame for this. Well, at least not all of them.
You see, Muslims are being *taught* to focus on performing rituals not because these rituals have any meaning (most scholars don’t deal with the meanings of rituals, such as prayer and pilgrimage), but because they *obliged* to perform them.
This approach isn’t compatible with human nature. Humans (or healthy ones, at least) need to know *why* they are doing what they’re doing and to form a comprehensive understanding of all aspects of their lives. When Islam is reduced to rituals, or when Muslims don’t have the right understanding of Islam, then its values won’t manifest in their conduct.
I remember before going on the pilgrimage, we met up with the scholar who was going to join us. He gave an overview of the rituals involved in the pilgrimage. When somebody asked what the spiritual/symbolic meanings behind the rituals were, he said: “This is a huge topic that I can’t go into now.”
And he never went into it.
There’s more to mention about this issue, but I don’t want the length of my comment to compete with the length of your post!