Feeling for others. It is hard sometimes to put yourself in somebody else’s shoes, to try and comprehend what they are going through or went through, the pain they’re feeling, frustration, happiness, all kind of emotions. The reactions to certain situations and how they deal with events.

What you do is try and picture the closest scenario possible and relate to that and if you couldn’t, you either take their word for it or kid yourself to understanding it. No matter how they describe it or show their true feelings, still something is missing …

Then again, something comes along your way which happens to you and you remember the agony they have been through and you begin to understand their pain, even if 1% of it. It’s like a huge flash light that shines down on you and for a second you can’t believe how much they had to put up with just to get through those extremely painful weeks.

GOD gives you many lessons in this life that you either take notice of or ignore, to make you more compassionate, more understanding, less stone-hearted, tenderer, more thankful and appreciative of what you have and of those around you … in hopes of becoming a better person or staying at least the same as you are …