How do you judge people?

With time, for me that is, I judge at first encounter and gradually build on that. My first instincts about a person maybe correct or not. But each meeting, conversation, incident help shape up that person. So it can totally change your perspective. Sometimes I begin to think highly of a person and discover they’re not worth the hype other times I discover what a great person standing in front of me and how thankful that I’ve met them

As for yourself, how do others see you?

Speaking for myself, I don’t make a first good impression and perhaps not even a second. With me, the person I project to be at first, isn’t really who I am. I need a while for others to get to know me

There is a whole science build on studying behaviours and gestures that tell who the person in front of you really is. The question is, do they work all the time? I believe no matter what your experiences are in life, they can only take you so far. You are bound to run into something different, so even if you see a familiar pattern, that doesn’t mean “been there, done that”, I know what this person is all about!

How can you judge a person by their behaviours in one environment? People can act differently around work, family, friends. They act differently based on their emotions, sad, happy. You can’t figure out a whole person just because you see them at work!!!

Someone who doesn’t work, doesn’t know what the hell they’re doing, stupid maybe, nervous, not serious, snitch, gossip, social retard, snob, etc. Some of the many things I’ve been sentenced to

I guess you can pick out the single thing that is absolutely true!