The real YOU …
I hate it when people think they’ve figured you out and know the person you are. On what basis, five times a week interaction??
If you want to know about me, just ask me!
Are you kind? NO.
Are you patient? I try to be, even though the urge to rip up the person infront of me boils inside of me sometimes.
Are you smart? NO, I just try hard.
Are you humble? I try to be, but it doesn’t help if I’m surrounded by stupid lazy people!
Are you easy to get along with? Yes, life isn’t worth the big fuss.
Are you funny? I think so.
Are you a good person? No, but I’m trying to be.
Do you have the urge to kill? I don’t go through with it, that counts ;P
The only people that can talk about me, are my family, mostly my sister, and my friends maybe. The people who are around you the most, who’ve seen you through ups and downs, in various situations, they are the ones who know you!
When people tell me something I’m not.
I really get annoyed, because all they say are the good things, I know it may make most people happy but not for me! If I get a negative feedback, then that’s something to work with.
You are socially challenged, you don’t go through your plans, you’re complex, negative, heart stoned …
See these are some stuff to enhance.
The other day one of my long time friends, said, you don’t know how to plan a day out?
I turn to my sister, and she says to my friend, you really don’t know her, she’s the one who plans most all our girls day out!
This is a simple thing, but even someone who’s been in your life for so long doesn’t know the real you.
I’m just not sure why some are obsessed to analyse others and claim they’ve figured you out! it’s just not right or normal, I think 
#1 by Rania on April 3, 2009 - 1:00 PM
ppl know what u show them , if u only show ur sister the true u , then don’t be angry if others can’t figure u out , and about ppl who analyse u , it is kind of annoying but i think we all do that sometimes when some one is very mysterious .
just and advise , positive feed back is only ppl trying to be nice to u , u can try to embrace that and think a mintue about others opnions other than ur family, they can see things too that may change ur life if u thought about it .
#2 by Rania on April 3, 2009 - 1:11 PM
and yeah about ur questions , these what i have an idea about , but i don’t think i know the real u , so u don’t go crazy on me
are u smart ? yes u are smart and u do work hard , u are both
are u kind ? u show that ur not , i think u are
Are you humble? yes i think u try to be
Are you a good person? of course u are !
are u stubborn ? hell ya
are u crazy ? u are u just don’t admitted
Do you have the urge to kill? yes u do lol
Are you easy to get along with? NO ur not
are u heart stoned ? yes and u are proud of it
at the end ur a big mystery to all human kind
loooooooooool
#3 by Bloggylife on April 3, 2009 - 10:12 PM
Rania, well my point is you do show people a side of yourself but that’s not all of you. No one can pretend the whole time! Of course what you are seeing is part of me but not the whole me. That’s why I say it takes time and interaction in various situations.
Maybe you are right, people are just trying to be nice! Bas you know how I get defensive sometimes, I guess that’s the crazy part you’re talking about.
Why the hell will you say I’m not easy to get along with, 3ad this one I disagree!
And Rania, you do know me better than most people and don’t forget, you are crazy too
#4 by Nosayba on April 4, 2009 - 12:46 AM
You mean you’re a bunch of crazy girls? I don’t know if I have what it takes, but I want in!
You know what’s worse than people claiming to know the real you and insisting on telling you their analysis of your character? It’s people spreading out their analysis and telling others what they assume are “facts” not “assumptions” about you. That kind of gossip is sick.
“من حسن اسلام المرء تركه ما لا يعنيه”
I like Rania’s point about trying to think of what people say and reflecting it on your life positively. This needs a rational perception of their opposing views even if they don’t come with good intentions. I should try to apply that.
#5 by Rania on April 4, 2009 - 1:14 AM
“Why the hell will you say I’m not easy to get along with ”
i know that would piss u off , see i do know some things about u mostly what can annoy although u get annoyed like for a split a second then u just brush it away sister , but yeah u can be hard to deal with cause u have such a big big big stubborn head , it won’t be u if u changed that about so don’t
i know i am crazy but i am getting old now so i am being more calm or so i like to convince my self
and if u weren’t crazy we wouldn’t be friends , i only be friends with crazy girls
#6 by Rania on April 4, 2009 - 1:14 AM
“Why the hell will you say I’m not easy to get along with ”
i know that would piss u off , see i do know some things about u mostly what can annoy although u get annoyed like for a split a second then u just brush it away sister , but yeah u can be hard to deal with cause u have such a big big big stubborn head , it won’t be u if u changed that about u so don’t
i know i am crazy but i am getting old now so i am being more calm or so i like to convince my self
and if u weren’t crazy we wouldn’t be friends , i only be friends with crazy girls
#7 by Rania on April 4, 2009 - 1:18 AM
Nosayba just requesting that is crazy so ur already in the gang lool
#8 by Nosayba on April 4, 2009 - 4:06 PM
Rania LOL
Waiting for Bloggy’s approval..
But from my first blogger-impression of her, I thought that she’s easy to get along with. Hmm.. I guess one should never go with first impressions after all. I have been deceived, haven’t I Rania? =p
I also think she’s smart, hard-working, kind, impatient (3a9abeya, like me).. OH, and poetic.
Oops, did I just follow the steps of the people you were talking about in your post? lol. I hope I didn’t
#9 by Rania on April 4, 2009 - 10:45 PM
loool yeah she is smart but if u tell her that she gets angry like u cursed her or some thing , she is very calm actually she isn’t 3a9abeya she boils inside but put alot of effort to not rip the person’s head infront of her . she is easy to get along with when she isn’t stubborn ,but thats actually very cute feature of hers.
by the way nosayba i always read ur blog i like it alot sepcially ur nurde score i think it’s cool lool
#10 by Bloggylife on April 5, 2009 - 12:16 AM
hmmmmm, this became a space to analyze!
Nosayba, nah express yourself, YUP, me 3asabeya but can control myself but once unleashed LOL ugly and don’t listen to Rania, I am an easy to get along with
You can join the crazy gang, it’s more fun, won’t you say? ;P
Rania, I’m still in denial with the stubbornness thingo ;P Quit with the old speech, you’re not getting old, old is 90 and above
We’ll never be old, we’ll die before that ;P We are growing up ;D
#11 by Nosayba on April 5, 2009 - 12:37 AM
Old? Who’s old? Nobody here is old.
LOL @ Space for analysis. Bloggy, I never do the analysis thing. Ever. I was just trying out my luck. Your post encouraged me to ;p I have friends that are good at understanding people after shortly knowing them, and others who are face-readers. I’m neither.
Rania, Thanks! XD If you have a blog please do share it’s link with me. lol @ Nerd score ; )
Shall I post my GPA and IQ as well? I thought nerdiness pushes people away; turns out it doesn’t. lol ;p
#12 by Bloggylife on April 5, 2009 - 8:48 PM
yeah Nosayba, للحين شباب
I’m bad in reading ppl too, but my sis is good, her intuition is always right, I guess it’s a gift
#13 by Ann on April 8, 2009 - 11:49 AM
Hi, I was just googling on how to deal with a person who claims to have figured you out and I stumbled upon this.. I totally agree with you…its crazy when people insist on analysing you. I have this co-worker with whom I’ve interacted like may be 4 months and he claims he ‘knows’ me…I mean he can only assume about my personality from wht he sees me acting at my workpalce. I mean how can he just conclude my whole life on that. Worse thing he is some 15 years my senior so he claims I havent seen life and its ups and downs..That really pisses me off..as if we have to wait to be 40 to know ‘hey, life is no rollercoaster..’ How do I deal with this snooty Mr.’Know-it-All’?
#14 by Bloggylife on April 8, 2009 - 9:46 PM
I guess the best way is to ignore! They believe they have something to pass on even if you didn’t ask for it!!
But if you have another way to deal with it … PLEASE pass it over ;P