“That’s a bit controlling”

I was having a discussion with my friend that in a situation of meeting an old acquaintance, I’d rather remember them and they don’t remember me and not the other way around. We might be lucky and both remember each other!

See because of my bad memory in remembering names, I tend to be embarrassed when someone calls me by my name and I can’t do that, or just utter the wrong name.

It didn’t occur to me, it was me acting a bit controlling. My own interpretation, is that I feel bad when I’m put in such situation. I believe the other person might feel offended or a bit hurt. I on the other hand, don’t give it much thought if someone remembers me or not, because I’m that quiet person

So to avoid all negative emotions, let me be the one to remember the other person

How about you, what do you think and if you had to choose, which person would you be ???

Do things really come your way, when you least expect them??

Do things really come your way, when you stop obsessing and let go???

When things don’t go my way or don’t happen, I let go. They are not meant to be.

I think if it’s meant to be, it going to happen whether you obsess or take it easy. Which ever makes you comfortable and helps you deal with the after math, whether you get it or not.