Decisions, it’s easier not to make them because they withhold some responsibility that no one likes to be linked to. Since everything here runs the opposite direction, the higher position the individual holds, the lesser decisions they are likely to make. they’ll just delegate this task to people underneath them with one thing in mind, the blaming culture that we seem to adopt and passionately live by.

I don’t understand who came up with this idea that we as human beings, don’t make mistakes, we do but as intelligent species we learn from our mistakes and don’t repeat them again. It’s weird how we thrive more on mistakes and errors rather than accomplishments.

We feel at ease when others come crumbling down but when we witness the raising of a hard working individual we immediately begin questioning the legality and validity of the act!

On an individual level, it’s more comforting to not change things, even if we don’t like them, we are taught to live it out, because everyone else is doing the same or simply you can’t change your surroundings. The hardest thing, is to make a decision on your own, under unsure circumstances, you are not sure if it’s absolutely the right one, but you are damn sure whatever you are in is not working, you sum up the gut to leap and the worst thing, is that you fail and you look around and all you see is people pointing and saying “told you so”, it doesn’t end here, you don’t give up, you take another jump and see where it takes you.

Making a decision is hard, recovering from a wrong decision is harder, not giving up even if you fail over and over again is much harder, doing it all on your own adds another notch to it being hard, having those around you discouraging you is the hardest of them all.

Life is short, it’s quite a waste to leave earth not living it up and taking chances. Some of us will succeed others will fail. Those who reach their goals often are recognized, others are the unnoticed heroes who didn’t give up and kept on trying though at the very end might not have reached their destinations, but have worked hard on achieving their dreams.

We have somehow deleted the journey from our satisfaction, recognition and don’t thrive on it anymore, our focus is on the end line, no matter the mean.

Everyone needs to look within and just please their inner self in hopes that all falls in place peacefully.

What would you do for money? How far will you go?

I think it’s more relevant to those who lack the availability of it or more importantly need it.

This question swirled my mind after watching “Indecent Proposal“, made me question my own hypothetical actions.

What would I’ve done, if I were put in such situation?

In relevant to my own life, what I do for a living. On days when I really hate my job and all I can think about it not coming back … good money … pops in my head!

The weird thing is when I got my first job, I was being paid less than my peers but I wanted this job and not any other job. When I started my second job, there wasn’t any increase what so ever!

I can not claim that I was brought up without any money, but as I make my own now and see what I can afford now compared to let’s say college days to first jobs and going on till today, it’s so tempting to keep hanging on just a little while longer. I know deep in my heart, I can adjust to whatever I make, but I still have some tolerance in me, so it keeps me going!

But this is shallow compared to a situation where one is in deep need and there is no way out or let’s say no clear way out yet, unless accepting something that you could not have imagined you would’ve ever do.

Some people may know the answer, others won’t. Some already been in that situation. I for one, can’t claim what I will or won’t do unless I am put in that situation and hopefully I don’t get there.

If money is enough to give financial stability, then it should be enough. But as you have more of it and see what you can do, especially if you didn’t have much to start with, you start to appreciate it more and put value to the abundance of it. It’s not only for getting the essentials, what you need it’s now about getting what you want! You can now loosen up the tight belt wrapped around your budget and breathe in.

Not having to worry about money sure makes life easy. Should you save for a rainy day but what if this day never comes and it would have been better served as a nice getaway to relax and enjoy.

The more responsibility you have, the more you need to think about it.

How far will you go for the money? What are your limits if any?

No matter what you think you’ll do or won’t do, the true answers come in real life scenarios in which real people and real emotions and stakes are put in the equation of it all.