I had so much fun reading Nosayba‘s posts, Being a Woman is a Malady, Part 1 and Part 2. Same as mentioned in her post, you can’t imagine how conversations that start with a topic ends with “why aren’t you married”. Once I was talking to someone about all shops having sale and it just went to discuss my single status!!!
As advised to Nosayba, “The quality of proposing men is indirectly proportional to time you know” 
, here’s my weird picky turn ons:
- Men who wear their seat belts while driving. To me it says so much
If anyone shares this with me, I’m starting a fan club - Men with their own ideas and beliefs are so attractive, physical appearances attract but wears off especially if the person is a jerk. He has his own mind set and conclusions, doesn’t give a crap about what others think, as along as he believes in what he’s doing and saying.
- Not to disregard physical appearances, but according to my friends, I’m attracted to square men
- I just discovered this, but this guy who’s a developer comes to our company, stands in front of the computer places his hands on the keyboard and I was just shooting away my questions and then realized he’s not touching the mouse. All his interaction with the system was only via keyboard strokes. Alt+tab this, F4 that, opens a notepad and starts coding, I was memorized, I thought OK that’s creepy, but to me it was amazing
Most women just want to get married, perhaps concentrating on the guy’s family qualities. Most men concentrate on women’s appearances, family and other qualities. But not all of them, as my big brother put it, “مابي وحدة غبية”, “I don’t want a stupid woman”
I guess whether you are single or married, you can share your thoughts. What does it for you or what you like about your partner.
PS: To creepy people, this isn’t an attempt to advertise my single status nor attract proposals.
#1 by MBH on October 5, 2009 - 7:29 AM
Kudos to your brother.
#2 by Nosayba on October 5, 2009 - 9:52 AM
1) Million thanks for the introduction : ) I’m glad you enjoyed my post. Yours cracked me up, loved it!
2) Physical appearance wears off if the person is a jerk. SO TRUE! I’ve just strongly sensed that in a number of situations lately (It’s also the reason why I don’t think Tom Cruise is attractive despite his good lookin’ black hair).
3) I have a thing for geniuses. No, I mean real geniuses, with sharp, smart eyes & everything. They have to be confident, but not arrogant though.
4) ROFL @ P.S.
#3 by Bashar on October 6, 2009 - 12:38 PM
1- I wear seat belt
2- I don’t have to explain more about my personal ideas and beliefs. You can ask my Mother… but please don’t :O. (I feel like Sheldon!)
3- I’m totally skinny, but been adding weight. I doubt I’ll ever be square. Deal breaker?
4- Hmm… I recall someone asking me if I’m Linux user, as I wasn’t touching the mouse, and I try to minimize it. Wastes few seconds every time you do.
Aghh… If I was just square! Hey wait… I don’t wanna. That’s typical Kuwaiti then!
Yes I read your PS.. but if a weirdo wants, he’ll say that’s just a reverse psychological invitation for proposals ;P
So you’re OK with smokers? Ewww! One good note I made is, all our geeky group had zero smokers! You can’t find that in any other gathering.
#4 by Nosayba on October 6, 2009 - 7:41 PM
Did you just intentionally advertise the well-being of your geek-group members?
Mesh na2es 3′er t7o6 their CVs ba3ed.. o their single status.. Hmph.
#5 by Bashar on October 6, 2009 - 7:52 PM
Nosayba: Why, is it turning some on already?
You marry a geek just cause he doesn’t smoke is stupid. Missing all the goods and picking him for this thing?
It just makes me happy I can sit with them for hours and then go anywhere else not smelly at all
#6 by Nosayba on October 6, 2009 - 7:59 PM
I said I admired geniuses.. GENIUSES..
Bas.. I shall say no more.
#7 by Bloggylife on October 6, 2009 - 8:59 PM
MBH, YUP he’s one of the few
Nosayba, LOL, I so share point 2, I guess you need a genius to keep up with you
you don’t want your partner feeling inadequate and we all know most men mentality anything can tick them off 
you need someone with confidence and isn’t easily intimidated
Bashar, nope smoking is not OK. wAllah which ever way I put it some will interpret it the way they wanna
so I just put it out there 
u know ur supposed to share ur turn ons and nothing geeky is allowed for u, ur doing fine all by urself 
#8 by Bashar on October 6, 2009 - 10:06 PM
Nosayba: Guess that puts me off the list then
. Hope you get a crazy maniac genius (and that’s good thing)
Bloggylife: Ohh really? OK, but I can’t make it up without geeky points. Let’s see:
1- Geeky in a way she finds her away around things, hacks and such.
2- Can make geeky jokes.
3- Plays neck to neck in hardcore games
4- Ohh yeah, her looks ofcourse
. We are MEN after all!
5- Smart
6- She corrects my board mistakes! Although painful and I never tasted it, maybe it would turn me on. Except I would be working 24/7 then to make sure I don’t get humiliated again.
Cooking is really nothing that picks me up
. Mom is for food, not wife :>.
These are all sci-fi things however. If we stick to them by heart, human race, or at least the geek-part of it would be long gone. Let’s just reproduce high quality geek species.
#9 by Haider on October 7, 2009 - 9:26 AM
Bloggy, a quality that’s valued by both sexes is the ability to listen. To really listen and understand someone, without judging them or cutting them off. That’s the highest form of respect you can give to anyone.
It’s especially important to have, in order to appreciate your second point, because a person who makes up his own mind and doesn’t care what society thinks sounds heroic in fictional stories, but can be a menace in real life!
Nosayba, you should either marry someone who doesn’t know (and doesn’t care to know) what a keyboard is, or one who can match your typing speed. You don’t want your hubby curled up in a dark corner, banging his head against the wall, feeling like a one-handed, retarded chimp.
Another piece of advice: don’t marry a one-handed, retarded chimp! Jus’ sayin..
Bashar, your best match is a PS3.
MBH, you spelled kudos wrong…
… just kidding!!
#10 by Bloggylife on October 7, 2009 - 8:22 PM
Bashar, that’s like having a female version of urself isn’t it
adds to your geekness world .. stop it …
LOL Haider you’re damn funny
But I totally 100% agree with you, being able to listen to what the other is saying is important to both genders. and RESPECT is a factor in any successful relationship
#11 by Bashar on October 7, 2009 - 9:29 PM
Bloggylife: Wouldn’t that be wonderful?
#12 by Bloggylife on October 7, 2009 - 10:00 PM
nope it won’t, maybe easy but not wonderful
I think 